Ch Ch Ch Changes

I am so happy. I have my ups and downs but my demeanor, my very foundation is different. I know that this is only the beginning but I have tools now that I never had. I am assertive and intelligent and I know, I believe that things always change. That is comforting, because while I may not want the good to change, the bad is temporary too. The more I can understand that life, moods, relationships, nature is cyclical, the more at ease I can be in my own skin.

More later....

oh but advice I just gave to a friend on not knowing if we can ever fall in love again "We never know the heights we can get to because our abilities increase. Our capacity for love has increased since last we did so we can't judge the future by the past" I didn't realize that's what I believe until I said it but the truth is everything in my life has suprised me! I never knew I could do all I can and each day, each year builds my abilities... my ceiling keeps getting higher. Is that the major lesson?